I lost a baby and was unaware until a scan around 3mths, the foetus required removal. Although I was in shock and upset, he tried his hardest to make things comfortable for me and help. I paid for the scan privately as it was not available on the NHS at the time in this Health Area. He told to me to have the courage to break the news to contact my partner there and then. Doing that helped enormously. He checked I was ok to go home alone. He was very kind, explained everything, the next steps, and my options. He gave me a choice of dates to come into Wycombe or Stoke Mandeville NHS for the op within 24hrs to 3 days. It was handled very well and because of that it really helped me to come to terms with everything. Over a year later I had a healthy baby.